2013

 
 

I hope everyone had a great holiday season and was surrounded by people whose company you truly enjoy and presence you genuinely cherish.  The holidays that fall on the calendar between late November and early January mean many different things to different people, but for me it’s all about re-connecting with family; reliving old family traditions and creating new ones for the next generation.

One of my favorite Christmas traditions growing up was Christmas Eve at Aunt Ruth and Pyran Wayne’s house.  There was just something magical about this much-anticipated event on December 24^th every year.  From as far back as my memory can reach all the way up to coming home on leave from the Navy, we’d get all dressed up, load up the car and make our way towards a gathering of family and food.  In the midst of all this visiting and gift-giving, we’d always take a moment to separate Christmas from my sister’s birthday since a December 24^th birthdate has a way of getting lost in the shuffle.  Time, relocations, schedules and just life in general ended the tradition somewhere along the line, but this year saw a return to the magical Christmas Eve at Aunt Ruth and Pyran Wayne’s house!!  All of the kids are grown now, but gathering family with food and sharing stories and laughter still felt the same.  So many great memories from the past and now being made again!

 

 

 

Mid-November, I made the trip west to check into my new command and set up a household in San Antonio.  With the help of colleagues and friends from work (as well as a nice cop who pulled me over for running a stop sign), it didn’t take me long to find a place to rent in a great location.  My mom came out and helped me unpack my household goods and find a place for them in my new home.  It was a busy and tiring week, but we both enjoyed the quality time together.  Although my mom has only made a couple of moves in her lifetime, she definitely has a knack for establishing a household!  After the boxes were unpacked and things put away, we drove back to Louisiana in time for the Christmas holidays. 

 

 

 

With such an intense and rewarding tour in NC from which to launch, I feel potential all around me in this new location and opportunity.  So, with the flip of a page on the calendar, a fresh year is spread out before me.  My wish for all of you is the same as it is for me- that all obstacles will be viewed as welcomed challenges and that each day ends with the feeling that your presence in it mattered.  Here’s to a fun and prosperous 2013!

 

 

 

Fat, stupid and happy!

 
The title definitely describes how I felt at the end of Thanksgiving!  I overate (not too much though), didn't tax myself intellectually (except for a few trivia questions) and was content in the place and time I found myself!

I know that everyone thinks that their mom is the best cook on earth, but I hate to break the news to the world... my mom really IS the best cook on earth!  Without fail, my mom pulls together a feast for what usually amounts to a small army every holiday.  And it's not like it's just a one-time sit down event on the special day.  With all the kids, grandkids and various family members old enough to have other social obligations, people drop in and out all day long ready to grab a plate and dig in.  No matter what time someone shows up at her house, Mom makes sure there's a hot plate of food available.



Although our Thanksgiving meal does include the uniquely Cajun dish of oyster dressing, the majority of what she prepares on Thanksgiving is pretty much the same as the rest of America.  The turkey is traditionally baked, not deep fried and the sweet potatoes are cooked with brown sugar and topped with marshmellows.  It's not the uniqueness nor the complexity of the dishes that make the meal so delicious, it's the environment in which it's prepared and served.  My parents, brother and sister, niece and nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles all enjoy each others' company and value the time we spend together as a family.  It's within the context of breaking bread with those we hold dear that the foods we share bring about a visceral feeling of home, of family and fond memories of those no longer with us.  It takes a great cook to get all that onto a table!!  And speaking of tables, I'm still at the kids' table!  That's me with Philip and Gavin at the folding table!

 

The temperature was in the mid-70s and the sky clear and windless.  After eating, we all hung out outside under the carport and played games.  The board games change throughout the years, depending on the ages of the "kids" and what's available, but trivia games are always a hoot.  My nephew Andy brought over his washer game.  For some reason, beanbags seem a little too Yankee, so they are substituted with metal washers down here- yes, the kind you use with nuts and bolts.  I don't know the history of using washers in the cornhole toss game, so if any of my Southern readers care to comment, please enlighten me!

 

As usual, the day ended with everyone lying around the TV watching either football or a movie.  I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving day surrounded by all you are thankful for! 

On the move

The last month or so has been quite a whirlwind- and yes, that's my excuse for being so tardy with my posts!  Not long after my ride south, a group of us flew out to Joint Base Lewis-McChord, WA for a week of meetings.  It was an exhausting week of program discussions and of saying good-bye to a truly amazing group of professionals.  Those program discussions and farewells would become the theme of my days for the better part of October.

The cycle of military transfers is a unique evolution.  Known as a PCS (Permanent Change of Station), receiving orders to a new duty station starts a cascade of events and emotions.  There's the excitement of moving on to a new challenge and meeting new people, but that's usually tempered by the feeling that there's so much more left to do at the current assignment and having to leave good friends.  For those of you who have never experienced PCSing personally, it's hard to articulate how all-encompassing the process is.  Every project you've worked on must be either finalized or readied for your replacement.  As is often the case, not only will your replacement likely not arrive until well after your departure, but sometimes your replacement may not even be identified before your departure.  So take a moment to reflect on how you would ready every thing you do at your job for an unknown person coming in after an unidentified gap of coverage.  Even with the benefit of communicating with your replacement, it's hard to download all the history, contacts and documents necessary to provide them with context needed to help them succeed.  Beyond the actual workload, when you PCS, you are leaving behind all your co-workers, friends and routines.  It's not like they all fall off the face of the earth, but the dynamics as you know it ceases to exist once you process out of your job and locale.  Most of us that have been around the block a few times understand that although you can always go back to a place, you can never go back to that place in time that it once was to you.  I speak from experience- this is my 12th move in the last 23 years- 2 of which were overseas relocations.  I have to say though, having professional movers do the packing and loading and being able to purge my household every couple of years makes the physical move much easier!

So with this context and a bit of melancholy, I will share a few of the events from the last two weeks. 

On my last day of work, our office had an historical field trip known in the Army as a "staff ride."  Fort Bragg and the surrounding areas are full of civil war sites.  When I'm out riding my bike, I usually stop to read historical site markers and have visited some of the buildings and cemeteries described on them, but none of them were civil war sites actually on Fort Bragg.  With a few cups of coffee in us and enough snivel gear to guard against the chilly day, we gathered for a brief on the Civil War Battle at Monroe's Crossroads from an archaeologist and cultural advisor at Fort Bragg.  He set the stage for what we were about to see out in the field by putting the battle in context in regards to the phase of the Civil War in which it occurred, the mindset of the local population, local economy, weather conditions, background and personalities of each of the leaders involved.

It's one thing to read about a battle that happened nearly 150 years ago, but it's another to stand on the actual battleground with an expert helping you to visualize how it unfolded.  Armed with the nuances of the event from the morning brief, I was able to really put myself into the boots of the Civil War Soldiers who fought in the battle.  Well, I put myself into their heavy, uncomfortable uniforms and situation as much I could as I stood on a peaceful piece of land in ACUs swaddled in snivel gear and cushioned combat boots!

At the conclusion of the staff ride, everyone rallied up at a local Thai restaurant for my farewell luncheon.  I LOVE Thai food and Fayetteville has no shortage of excellent Asian eating establishments.  Truth be told, my last week in Fayetteville included three lunches of Thai cuisine!

The final farewell was held at the home of my friends Jess and Dano.  If you follow this blog, you are already aware of their culinary prowess from my post on camping with them a while back.

Although I'm no longer in the Navy, my current work environment is similar to that of a pirate ship, and as such, is often referred to as the Black Pearl!  Our office is one-deep each of subject matter experts (SMEs) in about a dozen disciplines.  Representing our individual expertise beyond the capabilities of one-person usually requires us to resort to any means necessary to get the mission accomplished.  Although we don't plunder or pillage (for the most part), we're not above going above, around or, quite frankly through, anyone who stands between us and mission success.  Since skulls and crossed bows or knives are already prevalent throughout the SOF community, it was inevitable that the pirate skull and crossbones became the symbol of our efforts.  Dano did the reference proud with these pirate chocolate cupcakes made from scratch (including the icing) for my party!!!  Christi, Jess, Dano, Rob, Barb and I ate, drank and laughed until our sides hurt.  It was an unforgettable evening with great friends that I already miss.

My last day in Fayetteville offered me one final visit to the Airborne and Special Operations Museum.  This was the third year I went there to honor Veterans Day; this was the third year that the weather was absolutely gorgeous and offered a crisp, cloudless backdrop for the flags posted everywhere.

With so many celebrations commemorating my time at Fort Bragg and quality time with good friends and exceptional co-workers, I was able to leave feeling satisfied that my tour here was productive and that I am ready for the next assignment.  I drove the 14 hours between NC and LA straight through and am now hanging out at my parents' house for a few weeks before reporting into Fort Sam Houston.  I'm sure I'll have some food pics to post before leaving for Texas as I spend some time at home with my family... 

Slow Ride

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So it was a quick turn-around for part two of my vacation time.  On Sunday, Monica flew out of NC after our week-long beach odyssey and on Monday, I mounted my Streetglide and headed west.

I don't know if it's really a bucket list, but somewhere in my head is a list of things I'd like to accomplish and places I'd like to visit over my lifetime.  There are very few things on the list that I haven't done, or at least attempted, but as soon as I check off one item, I seem to add about 3 more!

Front motorcycle parking outside communal building.

Ever since I got stationed in NC, I've wanted to do the famous rides found along the NC/TN border in the Great Smoky Mountains.  My camping trip with Jess and Dano a few weekends ago into a nearby area just added to my conviction that I'd make it happen before I left NC.  In a few months, I'll be transferring to San Antonio, TX so I knew I had to find a way to fit this riding in not only before I moved, but also before the weather got too chilly for me to enjoy it.  As it turned out, I cut the weather piece a little close, but in the end, it all worked out.

Backside of Ironhorse.  Camping and cabins across the creek.

Since it was still good riding weather for anyone born north of Baton Rouge, I brushed aside my usual tendency to just roll into a town and try my luck at finding lodging and actually got online and made a reservation.  The original intent was to stage out of Robbinsonville, NC at the foot of some epic rides for a couple of days, then roll on to the Natchez Trace Trail down to Louisiana.  As luck would have it, the two days I planned on staying in the mountains were some of the wettest on record this year.  My desire to experience riding in the Smoky Mountains prompted me to extend my stay which allowed me a rainless, albeit chilly, riding day in some beautiful country.

Upstairs loft overlooking the Great room at Ironhorse.

Before I launch into a narrative about the actual riding, I have to give kudos to a great little nugget I found online.  The Ironhorse Motorcycle Lodge in Stecoah, NC proved to be a highlight of my week long riding trek.  All of the pictures in this post so far were taken at Ironhorse.  You would think that a day and a half of solid rain would cause a biker to lament her bad luck and curse the weather, but this place actually made even poor riding weather turn into a great opportunity.  This place has camping, bunk houses, private rooms with baths and whole cabins to stay in.  The best part though, is the huge communal building where everyone eats and hangs out to compare rides, equipment, riding stories and food.  The bad weather did nothing more than prompt most of us to hang out and make new friends.

Chris, Jackie & Brian out front of the Dragon hat store!

There are numerous pros and cons to traveling alone.  One of the definite benefits is that I'm much more approachable, which in itself is both a pro and a con!  It only took a half a day of pouring rain for me to make three new friends.  Chris, Jackie and Brian had ridden down from Ohio and had already done several of the rides on my agenda.  We spent the morning all hanging out talking bikes and getting to know each other before we spied a break in the clouds.  We were all itching to do some riding, so we donned rain gear and off we went.    As you can see in this pic of us at the entrance to the Tail of the Dragon, we got a little wet on our roll-out, but we didn't care even a little bit!  We avoided the more technical rides since the roads were so slick, but we still managed to ride the Hell-Bender 28, see some beautiful scenery and enjoy some curvy, flowing roads.

Click on pic.  Can you make out the dragon over the Cherohala Skyway?

A cold front rolled in that night so we were greeted with low 50s temperatures the next morning.  For my intrepid Buckeye friends, these temps didn't even register as something that needed a reaction.  But for this Cajun girl, I was sporting a full arsenal of snivel gear on a body that rested on a heated seat (yes, my new ride has all the bells and whistles!).

Jackie, Chris and Brian had already ridden the Dragon before my arrival, so I escorted them on the Cherohola Parkway as they made the trek back home towards OH.

Trail of the Dragon "Tree of Shame"

After parting ways with my new friends at the end of the Cherohala Skyway, I continued to make the loop that would take me on the Tail of the Dragon and back to the Ironhorse Lodge.  Luckily, the day warmed a little and I was able to relax and feel the road beneath my tires as I  rambled next to lakes, farmland and beautiful homesteads.  Once I hit the section of US 129 known as the Tail of the Dragon however, sightseeing ceased and I concentrated on the road ahead.  The road is so storied as treacherous that there's even a "Tree of Shame" on the NC side of it in which hangs parts left on the road by cyclists taking the turns too fast.  In order to document a biker's epic, or tragic, ride, there are a few professional photographers set up in some pretty hairy curves along the Dragon.  If you want to get a feel for what the ride is like, check out these websites:  www.killboy.com, www.us129photos.com, www.moonshinephoto.com.

There's no doubt that the 318 curves in 11 miles were technical and challenging; a biker had gone over the edge while I was riding it resulting in his bike resting 30 feet below in a ravine (thankfully, he walked away).  But I didn't find this stretch of highway any more difficult than the numerous mountain roads I prowled as I learned to ride a motorcycle in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado.  Nevertheless, the Dragon was on my list of rides to do, so I enjoyed the journey and added it to my collection of experiences.

Natchez Trace Trail next to Ross R Barnett Reservoir in MS.

                                                                                     With all these notorious rides now under my belt, I pointed my bike southwest and made my way to the Natchez Trace Trail.    This trail extends 444 miles from Nashville, TN to Natchez, MS through three states and 10,000 years of North American History.  The route was once a footpath that bisected the traditional homelands of the Natchez, Chicksaw and Choctaw nations.  Now, it's a well-maintained two-lane highway closed to commercial traffic that doesn't have a single stop sign or red light for 444 miles!  Well, it was actually shut down from Jackson to Natchez, MS for upgrades, but other than that, no stops!  For a biker who enjoys scenery more than technical curves, this stretch of asphalt was the perfect way to see a large portion of MS.  Along the way, I saw numerous wild turkey and deer grazing along the side of the road, as well as seemingly kamikaze butterfly colonies that coated the ferring of my Streetglide after only a few miles.  A humorous interaction occurred at almost every gas stop once I left the Smokey Mountains.  I would shut off my bike and unscrew the gas tank cover to fill the tank.  Inevitably, some guy would get out of his car or truck, saunter over, and feel obliged to comment "That's a big bike."  I'd just smile and reply, "I'm a big girl."  Really, what is the appropriate response to that comment?  You don't have to be big to ride a big bike.  Quite a few guys I know wouldn't be able to lift an 850 lb bike off the ground if they dropped it, so it has nothing to do with picking it up.  The only issue related to the weight of the bike that I have to pay attention to is not parking it on a down slope.  It has no reverse, so backing the Streetglide out under leg power up a hill is much harder than it was with the Sportster!  

Riding the Tail of the Dragon. Photo by Moonshinephoto.com.

There seems to be a common thread that runs through some of my most pleasurable past-times- wind and warmth!  Although I enjoy a gentle breeze when I'm sitting on a porch swing or hanging out on the beach, it seems that a forceful, hot wind rushing past me causes my senses to come alive.  On a beautiful summer ride in Colorado between Colorado Springs and Canyon City on my Sporty several years back, it dawned on me how similar the feeling of riding my motorcycle was to riding in a boat in South Louisiana.  It was the warmth of the sun combined with the sound and feel of the rushing wind that felt utterly familiar and comforting.  In those precious 4-6 seconds of military static line parachuting before the chute opens or the glorious 30 or so seconds of free fall involved in skydiving, I have the same sensation.  Something about the heat and adrenaline rush of air whipping past me focuses my mind.  In those moments, I'm in the moment.  Work, relationships, economics, politics, every world dilemma recedes to some unregistered part of my brain and all I feel is that moment.  Whether I'm falling through the sky at terminal velocity or gliding over asphalt on two mechanized wheels, I have no thoughts other than the sensations of that moment in time.  It's just me and my interpretation of the sensations.  Just me and the consequences of my actions.  It's just me and whatever power controls my fate.

My ride spanned over 1000 miles and 6 states in 5 days.  I made new friends, saw some amazing scenery, reconnected with the sheer joy of a hobby and ended with precious time with family.  My week alone on the road reaffirmed my independence, yet my ability to enjoy those I encounter along my journey.  It's taken me a lot of years to stop and enjoy the proverbial "smell of the roses", but I'm finally coming to a place in life that allows me to stay and enjoy the experience I'm in instead of focusing on the next one to come.  It's still a conscious effort to be there, but there I am :-)       

Beaching with my Sis!

I would've posted for the last two weeks, but I was too busy collecting experiences to blog about!  Lately, I've been feeling like I can't keep up with my own life, so a couple of weeks ago, I revisited the Outer Banks with Monica.  We purposely chose a couple of weeks after Labor Day so we could avoid the tourist crowds, but our timing just barely allowed us to enjoy the last warm breaths of summer.  The weather was a little cooler and the wind a little stronger than we would've liked, but we did our best to be beach bums anyway!

With both of us armed with fancy-smancy digital cameras, it wasn't hard to fill in the overcast hours with photo safaris.  The Outer Banks (or OBX as the locals write it) is quite photogenic.  From light houses and fishing piers to sunrises and sunsets, there was never a lack of subject matter to click a shutter at. 

One of our favorite stops along the OBX was Jennette's Pier at Nags Head, NC.  This recently rebuilt landmark is not only a great fishing hole, it is multi-sensory education on angling, sea life, coastal ecology, and preservation.  You can't walk 10 feet without coming face to face with information on how the tides affect water temperature, how to clean a fish, size regulations on different species of fish, or even how storms affect the coastline and how forceful hurricane strength winds can be (as felt in a hurricane wind simulator booth!).  This was definitely one of our favorite stops along the coast.

Although I had already toured the Wright Brothers National Memorial, I discovered tidbits I had missed on my first visit.  It's a fascinating story how the two brothers went from bike builders to the fathers of aviation.  Standing on top of the memorial overlooking the coast and sand dunes, it's not hard to understand why the brothers chose Kitty Hawk as the locale for the pursuit of flight.

One of the little nuggets of history I had missed the first time around was the wall of portraits of aviation trail blazers.  One that caught my eye was the story of Georgia "Tiny" Broadwick.  In 1913, this four foot adventurer became the first woman to parachute from an airplane by descending 2000 feet under a canopy.  According to the placard accompanying her portrait, during a jump in 1914 when she was demonstrating pack parachutes to the US Army, her line became tangled and she cut it, causing her to perform the first free-fall parachute jump.  By the time she retired in 1922, she had completed more than 1100 jumps!  Now that's super-sized courage packed in a pint-sized package!

The premonition I had on my previous journey to the Cape Hatteras light house when I decided to forgo the stair climbing to the top came true on this trip.  Monica and I climbed all 248 steps to view the island habitats from the top.  After climbing the equivalent of a 12 story building, we took a breather at the top by taking in the 360 degree view of beach, marsh, ocean and wildlife.  Pretty cool!

Although the lighthouses have become the symbol of coastal life in the east, there are numerous US Life Saving Service Stations up and down the OBX coastline that are just as symbolic of the culture.  In the late 19th Century and even into the early 20th Century, Surfmen assigned to the stations would rescue sailors from ships in peril due to hurricanes and enemy attacks.  The lighthouses may have prevented the loss of many Sailors and cargo, but it was the Surfman who risked life and limb to save them once they were met with danger.

All in all, we had a great vacation despite the less than cooperative weather.  We managed to end the week with tan lines, some great pics, bellies full of crab cakes, and lots of shared memories to add to our collections.

Labor Day Weekend Camping

You gotta love 4-day weekends!  I'm sure you know by now that there are many things about the military that I love, but add to the list 3-day holiday weekends extended into 4-dayers!!  Before I launch into a narrative about my great camping trip, I just have to gloat about the great start to my  holiday weekend- an Airborne Op.  Although final manifest time was 0630 Thursday morning and I didn't actually get airborne until 1200 noon, I had one of the best jumps yet, on any platform, out of a UH-60 (Blackhawk)!  We had to wait around the DZ (drop zone) for about 5 hours for the fog to clear and the cloud ceiling to rise, but in the end, it was a spectacular day to jump out of a helicopter!!

Friday morning I met up with Jess and her husband Dano for the trek into Western NC to Brevard.  I'm embarrassed to say that I've been in NC for almost 4 years and this is the first camping trip I've gone on.  Oh well, better late than never!  The town of Brevard is just south of Asheville and is jam packed with great hiking and mountain biking trails leading to hundreds of waterfalls.  The trails were lush with greenery and mushrooms in an assortment of colors- white, purple, yellow and even orange!

Usually I shy away from tourist attraction areas over holiday weekends, but we made an exception on this trip and it worked out to our advantage.  Jess and Dano turned out to be very compatible traveling partners for me.  As Jess so accurately described us, we're solar powered- we sleep and wake with the sun.  It's great being at a point in my life where I no longer have to prove that I can party til the sun comes up.  Been there, done that.  Now I go to bed when I'm tired and I wake up when I'm done sleeping.  Being early birds certainly worked out to our advantage this weekend.  We were up with the sun, had coffee and breakfast around the campfire, and were hiking the trails long before the hoards of holiday sightseers where out and about.  By the time the afternoon showers rolled in, we were done hiking and were amusing ourselves with small town sites where the rain was no concern.  As if on cue, every afternoon, the water from above would trickle to a stop by the time we were ready to put food on the campfire for dinner.

At this point in the story, let me just dispel any visions of tasteless camping food you might be conjuring up.  In true Jess and Dano fashion, meals are a gourmet event, even if it involves a campfire and bug spray!  This pic is a fine example of how we "roughed" in when it came to mealtime.  In addition to the beef and veggie kabobs you see over the grill, there are cloves of fresh garlic and mushrooms simmering in the foil packet at the lower left of the pic.  Evening meals consisted of kabobs and mushrooms or Burgundy mushroom hamburgers and roasted corn on the cob accompanied by the ubiquitous Asheville area micro brew. 

Even in the outback, a feast is not complete without dessert.  Enter graham crackers, marshmellows and dark chocolate!  Setting the chocolate covered graham cracker over the grill while roasting the marshmellows was the key to running-down-your-arms smores!  Sooooo good :-) 

I came back to work today refreshed from the outdoor adventure.  A pleasant break from the usual need for a vacation from my vacations.  How can I possibly be anything but relaxed after a long weekend in nature with good friends?!

Girfriends

No big road trips or overseas jaunts to report, but a great night out with the girls deserved a pic post!  As usual, Christi and Jess made an ordinary evening out turn into a social fashion event.

Enjoy your week and make time for some friends :-)